“There is nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and bleed.” ~Ernest Hemingway
For your writing to be “the best,” you have to give a lot of yourself. Sure, you can withhold and write a quick, fluffy piece that has barely any effect on anyone.
But, the best writing comes from deep inside you.
I’ve heard of a coach in the music business that works with singer/songwriters. He’s like a therapist. He digs and digs and digs until he finds their pain, and when he finds out what they truly feel about things, he says, “Is that what you want to say? Then say it!”
The rumor is, when this coach works with a singer/songwriter, his or her next album is a hit!
This is not a surprise because whatever painful circumstances you’ve been through, others have been through it too. They will at least identify with the core feelings of your experience. You are not the only one who’s been hurt and feels the way you feel!
When you dig deep, you find a resonance with your audience. Have you been abandoned? Well, yeah, you and half the planet! Rejected? Lost many loved ones to disease?
I must tell you, your audience is waiting to hear not only the pain, but the lessons you’ve learned. Can you write a story about a girl who overcomes repeated abandonments? What are her lessons along the way? How does she heal?
We need to learn to dig deep inside and be honest about our hurts, our opinions, and our passions. It’s what makes the BEST writing.
Now writer, go sit at your laptop and bleeeeeed.
“Writing means sharing. It’s part of the human condition to want to share things–thoughts, ideas, opinions.” ~Paulo Coelho